Deity in Disguise by Eguriase S. M. Okaka

 

 DEITY IN DISGUISE

 BY EGURIASE S. M. OKAKA

 

The woman has become a deity to the man.  A deity is a god or anything that requires worship from MAN. This is exactly what the woman has become to him. Since, I have established that fact it is now clear that the road we are going to tour here will be understandable.

 

In the creation story we understand that God made the woman out of the rib of    Adam the first man that was created. From Adam’s rib he formed the woman thus fulfilling what he had earlier said:  ‘I will make him a helper, a companion.’ The woman was made for the purpose of helping the man. The reason while God created EVE for ADAM is for Eve to help him.

 

Today, the story has changed. Man has reversed the whole purpose of God creating the woman. Man has deified womanhood in every aspects of life, and the woman is now seeing herself as a ‘Deity in Disguise’ yes, a deity that he cannot do without, an indispensable one to him. She knows that she is indispensable and he is ready to worship her just to get anything from her. This problem was caused by man and I am not seeing any solution soon because the younger female children of today are also following this trends as they are already seeing themselves as such too. Have you witness a 10 years old female child talking with a young man older than her, she talks rudely to him because she feels that she is carrying something that he may need if not now it would be later. She is feeling the same way like other big girls in the society.

 

Men of this generation are showing that women are not supposed to work nor do anything serious like what can stress them. In the various examination halls you will notice how male invigilators help female students to pass their exams more than the male students. While male students are caught cheating female students are not caught by them even when they sees them cheating. They overlooked it because they are already thinking of something she may not be thinking of. This present situation may be responsible for a woman not sitting for exams or not reading for an exam and yet she is passing it with distinctions. She may not need to attend an interview or qualify for a job yet she is employed, probably because she carries two pointed oranges on her chest which the man will need to caress someday. Why will she not see herself like a goddess because man has made her so?  

 

I have seen situations where men fights over a woman and the woman in question stood aside watching them fooling themselves before her. At the end of the fight she rejected them and moved on to another man. If men could fight over me it means that I am more superior than they are, she said and got a third guy and move on with her life. (I am referring to the unmarried ladies here). Why will a woman not assumed such air when men are foolishly fighting over them every day. That is giving her edge over the male folks. A man who fights over a woman is never a good husband women will always say. He will turn one day and beat me as well. There is no need fighting over a woman because she considers you as a ‘Wife Beater’ already when you eventually get married to her.

 

From statistics I understand that 95% of music is centered on the female gender as if there is nothing else in the society to sing about. Consciously, we’ve been singing their praises and making them to assumed unnecessary importance. The little child growing up hearing such music’s from her infancy to her teenage years begin to feel like a ‘semi goddess’ owing to what she has hitherto be exposed to by musicians while growing up.  Nowadays, it seems that any musical video that does not have a female or more dancing and twisting their waist to it  is  regarded as, not a sweet music. Some holds the opinion that there is no entertainment if a woman is not in it. In fact, that is what it seems now because of the prevailing situation. The man is responsible for what the woman is today. He has given her the role of a goddess to play and she is playing it very well.

 

Because of the previous pictures we had painted of the woman. She has now taken the opportunity to stand before the mirror making up and admiring her beauties thereafter forgetting their roles as mothers.  Children are suffering from hunger; husband comes from work to meet an untidy home. Motherly, roles are been downplayed by most modern so-called mothers.

 

Ladies are now calling themselves ‘Slay Queens’ that is surprising! Because the last time I check that word in the dictionary, it means to kill. Or are ladies now killers? If that is anything to go by than men are in for a showdown. These groups of ladies are not good housewife they know that very well that they are not cut up for that. So do you expect those ladies to do home chores or to be good housewives? Your guess may be as good as mine. Slay queens don’t do house chores they are only good for their sexuality. Men worship them for that and they know it very well. Those men who end-up marrying such girls may end-up divorcing them soon after their marriage with them because they don’t know how to cook and dress a home properly. To avoid this ugly situation I think women should learn how to be women. Go to the bible and find out why God created Eve for Adam.     

 

Taking into consideration of what obtains today, you will find out that most women are not even aware of their motherly roles again. What they focus is their beauty and how to impresses the opposite sex.  At least, let me look nice outside and flaunt what my ‘mama gave me’. They forgot that it is their inward beauty or character that will eventually attract good men to them. But when your character is dirty it will attract bad men to you as a woman. Many women don’t care about their character anymore but care a lot about the outward beauty. She believes that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder that is why I must look nice for my man. That is the main reason why women adorn themselves every passing minute of the day feeling that her beauty will bring out the deity in her. When men see them like that they start singing praises and calling her sweet names.

 

A man will prefer to help a woman to a fellow man because she is a woman. I have seen this happened before and it is still happening now meaning that the situation will continue as long as man exists in this planet. Whatsoever the woman has become today it is the man who made her so. It is like God created man and man created the woman into what she is today.

 

Celebrities are supposed to be role models to us but they are fast becoming something else as there is almost nothing to learn from them.  They are always showing us their big backside or boobs just to mention a few. I don’t know whether there is any moral lesson to learn from those things. They are always showing us how they engaged one guy or the other. Why they disengaged him and engaged another in replacement of him. How one guy cheated on her and how she dumps him and quickly moved to a spare waiting for her? These are some of the boring stories we read about them. Or what are they teaching us through their divorces and negative lifestyles well, what we should learn from anybody are positive characters that is what will help you anywhere and time. One of the reasons why the society is bedeviled by evil is because too many people don’t know what is right again so they think that evil is right. Well nothing to learn from anything negative thing except evil.

 

Learning influences people in either ways. Our society is so bedeviled by negative vices and youths and teenagers are learning from it in a very fast speed. That is responsible for the kind of evil we find in the society today. Evil cannot beget good. Evil can only beget evil.  Gone are those days when people learn good moral behaviors from others because they themselves want to be good too but nowadays nobody care anymore. Youths of today use to say ‘who good behaviors help’. That is surprising!

  They rather preferred to learn from people with questionable characters in the society. What youths of today know are ‘yahoo boys’ and they willingly wished to learn from them because they want to be like them. Before now when you asked a child what you want to become in the future? He either says ‘a Medical Doctor, a Lawyer or an Engineer’ but today the story is different. Ask that same child today what you want to be he will changes the answer, to I want to be a ‘yahoo boy’ because that is regarded as the rainy profession now.

 

A dress is termed as a good dress when that dress covers the dresser’s nakedness. That is the main reason while we put on dress. But nowadays majority of the woman’s dress is showing her nakedness. Many women put on clothes that show their sensitive parts and walk around in the public comfortably. Some do it deliberately because they want to show the world what they carry.  She knows that she carries special features, wish are attractive to the man; When men see that they are moved or tempted to betrayal. That is why the woman played the role of a goddess to him. Anything she does will always attract him. Anything she wears will always attract him even when she dresses half naked she looks more attractive and seductive to him.

 

Oh man you are responsible for what she is today! The woman knows that the man worships her for what he wants to get from her. She will always feel like that because she feels that she is a powerful being to him that possesses what he always wants. She can influence him to do whatever she wants or else deny him of her booties. And when he declines he may be denied that veritable part of her that she knows that he wants somehow. That is why he cannot deny her anything. He is always ready to give her the halves of his kingdom and remain poor if need be. She knows this too well that is why she will always played the godly role in his life.

 

Listen friends, men are responsible for who the woman is today. Sit down and medicate on this and you will see reasons with me.

 

By Eguriase S. M. Okaka